He’s Been…

He’s been conditioned. He’s been told to be a man before he could even spell man. He’s been told that boys don’t wear pink, play with dolls or cry. He’s been measured by how well he plays sports or uses tools over how well he uses his mind. He’s been mocked. Ridiculed by his peers … Continue reading He’s Been…

Things You Can Do To Better Prepare Yourself As A Bottom

I've said this before but we treat bottoms and subs like toddlers instead of full functioning adults who can think on their own. Yes I think some knowledge is needed for first time players, but not all Tops have all the answers and to put everything on the shoulders of Tops and Doms is ignorant. … Continue reading Things You Can Do To Better Prepare Yourself As A Bottom

Show Him Everything…

Show him…The happiness that comes from trivial joys. Show him…The sadness that comes from problems in the world. Show him…The giddiness that comes from childish things. Show him…The scars that come from years of trauma. Show him…The vulnerability that comes from bearing your soul. Show him…The ugliness that comes from your negative self-image. Show him…The … Continue reading Show Him Everything…