So you are under consideration by a prospective Dom/Domme and you want to go from a lump of coal to a glistening diamond. His/Her consideration is your probationary period in which you in turn prove yourself worthy of His/Her dominance, guidance and time. What about Them, though? The consideration process is also your time to … Continue reading Thoughts On Consideration
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You Are Strong!
You are strong! You have weathered many storms. You have survived many trials in your life. You are here standing tall. Yes you *feel* weak and yes you will indeed fall. Falling is inevitable. Falling isn’t a sign of weakness, but rather a bi product of your strength. The measure of your strength is not … Continue reading You Are Strong!
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Be Rough With Her…
Be rough with her. She’s not some delicate flower whose petals are easily damaged. No, she’s a warrior that fights battles every day with a smile on her face. A queen amongst queens that rules her domain. A goddess that receives worship in bruises and bite marks. Be rough with her. She wants to be … Continue reading Be Rough With Her…
Things You Can Do To Better Prepare Yourself As A Bottom
I've said this before but we treat bottoms and subs like toddlers instead of full functioning adults who can think on their own. Yes I think some knowledge is needed for first time players, but not all Tops have all the answers and to put everything on the shoulders of Tops and Doms is ignorant. … Continue reading Things You Can Do To Better Prepare Yourself As A Bottom
YOU ARE WORTHY!!!
YOU ARE WORTHY!!! Once more for those in the back… YOU ARE WORTHY!!! You are worthy of the respect of strangers as well as loved ones. No one is entitled to receive respect and no one is entitled to give you respect. But you are most certainly worthy of respect. Respect of your boundaries. Respect … Continue reading YOU ARE WORTHY!!!
Healthy Sacrifice vs. Toxic Sacrifice
We all make sacrifices for our friends, family and loved ones. We give up free time to help when they’re in need. We even make sacrifices for strangers like giving up your seat on a crowded bus so that someone can sit down. While some sacrifices are healthy there are some that commit toxic sacrifices … Continue reading Healthy Sacrifice vs. Toxic Sacrifice
I Was On Podcast
I was fortunate enough to be a guest on an episode of Kinky Cocktail Hour hosted by @SafferMaster and @Lady_Petra. We discussed my role in the kink community, the role poetry plays in my life and my kink journey, as well as the creative process and impact poetry has on us on a human level. … Continue reading I Was On Podcast
Intent vs. Perception
This is where a lot of miscommunication happens, especially in the form of text (text messages, forum comments, etc.) it’s hard for most of us to pick up intent in verbal communication let alone in written communication. in·tent/inˈtent/ intention or purpose. "with alarm she realized his intent" per·cep·tion/pərˈsepSH(ə)n/ a way of regarding, understanding, or interpreting … Continue reading Intent vs. Perception
I Had a night…
I had been talking to a woman for quite some time, about a month. Nothing earth shattering just simple chit chat, in fact we often played message tag. There were even days where we didn’t talk at all. Then one day recently she sent me a message: Good afternoonMaybe I am over stepping, but we … Continue reading I Had a night…