You Are Strong!

You are strong! You have weathered many storms. You have survived many trials in your life. You are here standing tall. Yes you *feel* weak and yes you will indeed fall. Falling is inevitable. Falling isn’t a sign of weakness, but rather a bi product of your strength. The measure of your strength is not … Continue reading You Are Strong!

Things You Can Do To Better Prepare Yourself As A Bottom

I've said this before but we treat bottoms and subs like toddlers instead of full functioning adults who can think on their own. Yes I think some knowledge is needed for first time players, but not all Tops have all the answers and to put everything on the shoulders of Tops and Doms is ignorant. … Continue reading Things You Can Do To Better Prepare Yourself As A Bottom

Intent vs. Perception

This is where a lot of miscommunication happens, especially in the form of text (text messages, forum comments, etc.) it’s hard for most of us to pick up intent in verbal communication let alone in written communication. in·tent/inˈtent/ intention or purpose. "with alarm she realized his intent" per·cep·tion/pərˈsepSH(ə)n/ a way of regarding, understanding, or interpreting … Continue reading Intent vs. Perception